A Manifesto on Egg Freezing and Work-Life Balance
Image: Jezebel It’s hard to be mad at a benefit that promotes a reproductive choice for women, but the context is infuriating. Here’s my Jezebel manifesto, of sorts, of why it’s just not enough.
View ArticleTwo kinds of fear
If you’ve ever stood on the edge of Cliffs of Moher, you quickly understand the difference between healthy fear that can save your life and fear that will debilitate you. Credit:...
View ArticleAn Imperfect Daughter
I would hope my mother, who announces regularly these days that she’s not getting any younger, feels completely and absolutely adored by her family as she rides out her twilight years (she’ll outlive...
View ArticleCupcakes, lemonade, paper and magic
Charles Papert photo Grace, my newly minted 4-year-old, is coming off a 36-hour high-rev cycle of excitement about her birthday, breaking into her own little “it’s my birthday, birthday, birthday” tune...
View ArticlePen Is Mightier: Letters I Wrote This Week
1. To Grace’s karate teacher I’m Grace’s mom, and I wanted to let you know how much I enjoy watching her in your class and what a great job you do with the kids. It’s the perfect balance of silliness...
View ArticleDads, Stop Doing This. It’s Disgusting.
Look, Daddy! I’m a virgin! This post was recently syndicated in Ravishly. Have you visited this site yet? Pretty great. This cringe-inducing story about a dad who forced his daughter’s prom date to...
View ArticleLove and Entropy in Texas
I came here to visit my daughter’s birth parents and ask them about their history and their adoption experience. It’s been an intense journey. They have an angrysad hangover, four years later, about...
View ArticleWhen Moms Get Mad
I’m tired of mommy wars and don’t participate. However. Sometimes something gets you so hard in the gut that you need to punch your way out. Here’s my response to Phyllis Schafley’s equally...
View ArticleSome Days
Stephanie Simpson photo September can officially go eff itself. My already pulpy, bruised heart was further pummeled with the loss of a dear friend last week. I’m thinking a lot about how I can be a...
View ArticleHi, Ghost Dad
Bring Your Dad to Work Day, 2017 I’m writing a lot about my family these days, and it’s tough to reckon all I think I know with what the actual facts are, once I dive in deep and really remember. I’ve...
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